Lilith is a sneaky, sneaky snake. Proud, arrogant, condescending and passive-aggressive. I have found her to be more commonly found when dealing with women, because she appeals to the nature/flesh of most females.
You won't find her being confrontational, but you will however find her sneaking about, subtle, yet destructive, as she plants seeds of doubt and discord amongst the brethren.
That is why I refer to her as a sneaky, sneaky snake.
She may present herself in an intellectual manner, and usually does, looking down on others, but what spews from her heart is nothing but poison and hatred for Yahweh, even if it's wrapped in flowery words. She many times presents herself as helpless and fragile, yet like a spider with the fly, she is only playing with her prey until she
chooses to devour it. She numbs the heart and is determined to keep you asleep and dead to the things of Yahweh. She doesn't mind you being religious, not at all, she can abide that, however she won't abide Yah'shua sitting on the throne of your heart, for she sees that as her position.
Regardless of how she initially attached herself to our mind and heart, and many times it is through no fault of our own, certainly when dealing with abuse issues, HOWEVER, always, without exception, we are responsible for her leaving. We must choose, and most times choose before we completely understand, for that is the last she wants. It's not until we have verbally and in our hearts surrendered the throne of our heart to Yah'shua and declared that we want nothing more to do with her, it's then that the clouds start to part and our minds clear and we can see more clearly, and thus see and understand enough to fully commit to freedom through Yah'shua completely.